My Dead Daughter and I always turn the radio

My Dead Daughter
Every spring
my dead daughter spraypaints
PLEASE DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE
on the road where she died.
My dead daughter has a flute
at the grammar school
for kids whose parents can't afford
a flute of their own.
My dead daughter
sends fifth graders
to art camp
every year.
This year
instead of marching with them
my dead daughter is helping
send her classmates to college.
My dead daughter's changing the world.

I always turn the radio
off
when I stop at the
stop
sign
by the white cross
where you died
I always turn the radio
off
some sort of ceremonial
moment of silence
today
I forgot
for the first time
to turn the radio
off
I was talking
to a new friend
can you forgive me
for forgetting
to turn the radio
off
and also
for living